So you know like this girl. She is beautiful, smart, and funny. It’s a given that any man would love to be with her. Turns out, she is also the girl of your dreams too. You want to talk to her, know her better, and spend more time with her.—well, not forcefully but definitely!But, you are just too nervous to make a move.You fret too much about it all.
Even though you feel she won’t even notice you, or at best treat you as no more than a friend, we assure recommend you to take your chances. Here’s how:
1. Be Her A Friend:
Yes, it is important! Irrespective of the gender, a friend is a friend. This is the reason why it is important for you to be always there for her—physically,over the phone or virtually! Be at her disposal. If she wants to have a cup of coffee, make sure you take her to a nice café. If she’s upset over something and wants to talk to you, listen to her, no matter what! Get over making small talks. Show her that you really care!
2. Never Hide Your Weakness:
You may be her best pal but that doesn’t mean you have to hide your flaws whenever you are around her. Be true to yourself and don’t pretend to be someone you are not; not only in front of her but also in front of others! She will respect you more if you are transparent as a human being true to yourself.
3. Throw Genuine Compliments:
Yes! Don’t be cheesy and go around complimenting to her just to get into her pants! If you really like something about her, say it. But if you don’t genuinely feel it, don’t make up stuff. You can even be a little funny humorous while complimenting her! Test the waters but don’t go overboard.
4. Don’t Be aA Snob:
No one likes to be friends with a snob, let alone be in a relationship with him! Make sure you keep your feet on the ground, no matter what. Whether you get a big promotion or happen to buy an expensive watch, —don’t show off. Also, never try to put her down. Respect and value her,—otherwise, she will bin dump you in no time!
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5. Don’t Force Her:
Even if things don’t work out for you in the end, don’t be disheartened and certainly, don’t try to push her to like you. If it is meant to happen, it will. But if she doesn’t have the hots for you, it’s better to just maintain good relations with her, rather than spoil whatever you had between the two of you.them.
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Being into a girl who is clearly out of your league can be very distressing, but that doesn’t mean that you consider the game as over even before beginning. Make a move and try the tips mentioned above. May the force be with you.
Good luck, buddy!