No matter how macho a guy is, he always desires a girl by his side whom he can pamper and who takes care of him. However, most men do not know much about relationship and rules. Here’s where we come to the rescue! We present to you a list of ground rules every guy must keep in mind while entering into a relationship.
1. Giving personal space :
Every girl likes a possessive man, but no one needs a watch dog. As a new relationship is beginning, it is understandable to be insecure and clingy. However, you must draw lines that are never crossed.
2. Don’t make plans way too ahead :
I’d follow Barney’s rule for this one; if it has been just one month to your relationship, you should not make plans more than one month ahead. You never know what lies ahead so, taking baby steps is the best way to move ahead.
3. Take it slow :
We’ve all been through the early bloom of a relationship; it is all honeymoon-y, and every song on the radio is about you. And from experience, we suggest that you should take it slow. Take time to bring family and friends into the picture and do it only when both of you are sure about it.
4. Don’t let the past haunt you :
Everyone has a past, but don’t let your bad experience affect the new good thing that’s blooming, and it goes for both of you. Let yourself fall in love like it is your very first time. Learn from the mistakes you did, but don’t hold yourself back because of the past.
5. Keep the personal stuff to yourself :
No matter how close you are to your friends or family, do not share every detail with them. Especially sex life; you should never disclose or flaunt your intimate details among your colleagues, friends, or family members.
You can avoid many first fights if you follow the above guidelines. And just because you are trying this hard, here’s a little extra tip! Be HONEST!! It really does pay well. We wish you all the best for your new found love!